OK- something that comes up AGAIN, and AGAIN, and AGAIN when I’m working with clients, is the challenge of dealing with OTHER HUMANS!! UGH you may well be thinking…..
So…the focus this month is on getting you into your own power!
One thing I know for certain when I’m coaching, is my client MUST step out of victim mode and into VICTOR mode if us working together is going to be a success.
But, so many of us are living in victim mode. And it sucks. It sucks to be around someone in this space, and it sure as hell sucks to be in this place yourself.
Look, I GET IT. Other people can be tricky as, and I know so many of you are challenged by your kids, husbands, wives or significant others, colleagues, or other family members….and this can be particularly tough when the offender is someone you’ve know for an age, or when they’re plural!
I HEAR YOU when you complain. I DO understand. BUT, I’m in the business of helping. It’s my passion, my life blood. And I know that just letting you complain, and moan, and agreeing that he, or she, or they, are simply a** holes, really won’t serve you.
On the other hand, me reminding you of some of the stuff you already know deep down, most certainly can. So…..that’s what I’m here to do!
Truth is- you have the ability to bring out the best, or the worst, in anyone. You also have the ability to influence others, whether it’s just one person, or a group. And instead of being brought down in such situations you can lift others up, or simply not get caught up.
I want you to remember to focus on your RESPONSE, way more than you do the actual events.
I’d love for you to focus on setting yourself up for success IN ADVANCE of situations.
It would help you so much to start to see the other humans in your life as messengers, and not enemies. There simply to show you where you still have to grow, what you’re holding within that isn’t serving you.
You’ll also always be served well by stepping into your own power before you interact with others.
Oh and please, please remember that no one can MAKE you feel anything…when you say ‘he made me sad…’ etc this really takes you OUT of your own power. Switching your language up to say: ‘ When you did X, I felt Y’ is such a simple but powerful switch to make.
Use this month’s track to help get you calm, and in control, and ready to deal with ‘the others!’ It’ll remind you of powerful, helpful truths, and get you prepped for ‘battle’ (or not, as the case may be).
With so much love,